Assets

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Mon, 03-24-2008 - 9:33pm

STBX and I went over our list of what we both want, last night.

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Registered: 03-04-2008
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Tue, 03-25-2008 - 7:02am

Wow - how petty of him. I guess this is one area where I am lucky - my STBX said that he wants to avoid the household inventory, doesn't want to take much from the house because he doesn't want to disrupt things for our children. So we just went through together and agreed on a list of things he wants to take without valuing out everything else. He thinks this is fair and I am fine with it.

I think if he is getting down to valuing yarn, I wonder what *you* can get down to valuing - maybe he has a change jar? a set of CDs, videos, some 'special' magazines hidden in the drawer? LOL. Of course this would be being just as petty maybe but he might get it.

I am sorry you have to go through this. The whole situation is tough enough without the pettiness.

Take care and do hire someone to help with the valuation of property - it seems like he is being very unreasonable.

~Hurtnlost

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Registered: 10-25-2006
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Wed, 03-26-2008 - 8:09am

Lady,


Your yarn stash isn't an "asset." (Hate to disappoint your STBX.). If you ran a store where you sold yarn or made something from the yarn which you sold in quantity, then it would

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Wed, 03-26-2008 - 7:45pm

Thanks so much for the info.

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Registered: 02-15-2008
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Wed, 03-26-2008 - 8:50pm

Hello Iladyja,


I have recently separated from my husband and took some of my things with me.

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Registered: 03-04-2008
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Thu, 03-27-2008 - 10:31am

Ila..a judge is only going to look at the major its, furniture, retirement accounts, autos etc.


If he wants to get that petty then hire an appraissor and he will need to split the bill.


This is why I do not do divorce law.

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Thu, 03-27-2008 - 8:38pm

Thanks,

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Sat, 03-29-2008 - 9:59am

UPDATE!!!


Talked to the lawyer yesterday and she said the yarn is not an asset.

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Registered: 09-24-2007
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Sun, 03-30-2008 - 10:18pm

It's amazing how crazy they can get.

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Mon, 03-31-2008 - 5:06pm

Yes, he's getting alot of the good stuff.