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| Sat, 09-09-2006 - 10:53pm |
Hi everyone. I am having a horrible night and needed to vent. This is what is going on in my life, I filed for the divorce and not much has happened the STBX is a big procrastinator. Anyhow, we have been getting along great for the past two weeks, I even planned on going to his uncles wedding this weekend. I got there with my children and he is very distant to me. Earlier today, I had told him that a friend of mine called me when they had ran into his OW. And I heard from the horses mouth, that he had been seeing his child(ren) with her, which isn't that big of a deal except for the fact that I am trying to trust him again and he knows he can't be going around her without me knowing first, its part of our trust building. SO when I confronted him on it, he got angry with me and denied seeing them hardly at all. Then tonight at his uncles wedding he finally walks up to me and says in my ear, you ever have someone checking up on me again I will press charges against you stay out of my life good bye. Well I of course stood up after he walked away with tears in my eyes and went outside and he was in an argument with his mom about the same stuff. I said i wanted to know what he meant well he had called OW and she told him who she ran into and he assumed i was having her check up on him, and in all honesty, all I wanted her to find out was if her second child was my husbands or not. SO he continued to yell at me and his mom. He took of in his truck and his mom told me to go back in and I said no the girls and I should leave. So the girls and I went home. I don't know what to think. We were trying to rebuild even though the divorce was going to go through sooner or later. I just was trying to see if we could be friends or more or not. Now i feel so weak and not having the strength against him like I use to. I fell back into being with him emotionally. I am so confused in hurt and just am looking for a shoulder to cry on.
Thanks
Angie

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As you read your post, do you think this man is worth rebuilding a relationship with? I know you're hurt and angry, scared and violated right now, but in the end, it sounds like getting