Back from psyc appt ... So sad.
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Back from psyc appt ... So sad.
| Thu, 11-29-2007 - 10:25am |
I *know* i should be "jumping for joy" ... saying "I told you so", etc, but -- i just cant feel "joyful", b/c everyone loses in a way.


I've been following your story for some time. My heart goes out to you. I am thankful that someone intervened here, because Averey is what's most important right now--though I don't need to tell you that.
I hope this will give you the ability to begin to truly let go, and to rediscover YOU as you were before this drama began. Imagine what you can do with all the energy that's been freed up by this development! Sit back, take a deep breath, and decide where you want to go now.
Wishing you the very best,
Maitri
HUGS!!
What a painful process.
I hope this Psych. follows-through on all his promises to put things in writing. And the court says the psych. is the one to make the determination about visitation? If so, then it seems like this is a done deal. Do get a restraining order, though. I once was stalked -- I was naive about it waaaay too long. Protect yourself!
I hope Avery and you can do some healing now!
M
Oh Rebecca... I know that Averey will be said, but I also really feel that she'll gain a new level of comfort, too.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Hi Rebecca,
Now if you can just get that GAL reported seriously I really think you should pursue that.
Smile,
Deirdre
Oh Rebecca,
Sending huge hugs to you and A.
Ok, Getting the Restraining Order.
I'm glad that you have some appointments to take care of you for a bit today.
He has made threats against you AND Averey... so the RO should name YOU and AVEREY.
After all, every bit of this is being done to protect AVEREY first, you second... so it only makes sense that she should be named (for now) until HE DOES WHAT THE COURT ORDERED HIM TO DO... which he hasn't done, so there shouldn't be a problem getting the RO to cover Ave, too.
I agree with you about fleeing your life to get away from him.... you're putting things in place to help protect you and Ave, and if he screws that up, he'll have to pay the consequences.... and while those *could be* very harmful to you and/or Ave.... you just can't shelf your lives because of what he might do at this point... and to me, that slim chance of him doing something *really stupid* isn't worth completely turning what's left of your life upside down... and that's where wings and prayers step in :-)
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~