Back to the same old

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Back to the same old
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Wed, 01-04-2006 - 6:56pm

He had her for a week over Christmas and New Years and he told me he would be here to get her for his weekly visit. Phone call today and "Daddy loves you but won't be able to come get you this week because I have to work..."

Mind you I asked DD who watched her while daddy went to work (when she was with him) and she said "Daddy didn't go to work because he didn't want too. So he stayed with me all the time." (Ok I would love to do that for my DD stay home and not go to work but in my world that just doen'st happen)

My days off and not going to work consist of taking DD to doctor appts. (She will have to have her adenoids out and she had allergy testing) Am I complaining that I have to do this absolutely not, it is just that I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt when he only bought her 1 present for Christmas (told her that Daddy didn't have any money - but doesn't go to work isn't helping). I told my DD that it was beautiful necklace (gold necklace with St. Christopher medalion) Told her that her daddy loves her and wants her safe at all times. Told her how some children don't get to be with their parents on holidays and that just being with her dad should be a special present for both her and her dad.

Told myself I wouldn't allow him to get under my skin anymore. Poop on him and his selfishness. But it is soooo hard when I know that tomorrow is his GF birthday. I hope he isn't ditching our DD for that. But if he is poop on him again.....

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 01-05-2006 - 12:23pm
I hear ya!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~