We went to the class and both were validated on different points. He was validated on keeping custody because it says the child should remain at the same level of comfort and stability they are accustomed to. He can provide that now.
Hey Thanks! You are right about the tether. He told me he accepted the separation but wants me to stay here till I get a job and a place to live even though I have a friend who said If I did the cooking, cleaning, and laundry I could say that was my rent. Then today I told him I might go out and he said like where and I said like on a date, boy did he go ballistic! He said I knew we were separated but I didn't expect you to date until you were out of my house. I think I will probably move in with the friend when his room mate moves out. She should be out by the end of April.
We went to the class and both were validated on different points. He was validated on keeping custody because it says the child should remain at the same level of comfort and stability they are accustomed to. He can provide that now.
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He may have a tight rein on you now... but you are loosening the tether a little bit each and every day.
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Hey Thanks! You are right about the tether. He told me he accepted the separation but wants me to stay here till I get a job and a place to live even though I have a friend who said If I did the cooking, cleaning, and laundry I could say that was my rent. Then today I told him I might go out and he said like where and I said like on a date, boy did he go ballistic! He said I knew we were separated but I didn't expect you to date until you were out of my house. I think I will probably move in with the friend when his room mate moves out. She should be out by the end of April.
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