get a index card and write your questions on them. When you are in a good mood, choose a card and write the answer on the back. Evenually you will have all of you questions asnwered. In my humble opinion. Do not move, enough has gone on with your child... things will even out
I feel like I cannot get a hold of my emotions these days too. Seems like mine change by the hour...it's a roller coaster for sure. So you're not alone. I try to tell myself "next year at this time......fill in the blank....." I don't want to wish away time, but it's about the only bright spot I have at this point...so I'm going with it.
We're here for you Buckeye! Lean on us when it's all so overwhelming. Big hugs!
And congrats on being a homeowner...on your own! You go girl!!! :)
Hi. You're hitting an important milestone in the process: closing on the house. It's a line of demarcation. It's naturally going to hit you like a ton of bricks as you move along this process. These feelings won't last forever.
Recovery is day-to-day. You'll feel like crap for a while. That's OK. Cry when you need to cry and let it out. You'll find as each day goes by you'll feel a little bit better than the day before. Yes, you'll have relaspes (that's what you're feeling now) because of certain events - like closing on the house or a stupid broken garage door.
Here's my suggestions for getting through this rough spot and helping you move on:
First, find a way to safely release your frustration and anger. When I hit this
I had to smile when I read your post--there is someone out there feeling the same way that I do! I just started the seperation/divorce process about two weeks ago with my husband. I have been married 6 years, we have no children. But, I was extremely unhappy in my marriage, and had been for a long time. Its a long story, but I feel the same way you do- even though we had a rocky marriage with mostly downs rather than ups, I still am sitting here having a very hard time. I cannot even imagine my life without him at the moment and I am really quiestioning is this what I really want? Even though, I know that my only other option would be to stay in a relationship that is not healthy and not what I truly wanted out of a marriage.
All I can hope for is that things will get better with time, that these feelings will begin to subside, and that hopefully, one day, we can all move on with our lives. I am with ya girl, I know its hard.
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get a index card and write your questions on them. When you are in a good mood, choose a card and write the answer on the back. Evenually you will have all of you questions asnwered. In my humble opinion. Do not move, enough has gone on with your child... things will even out
"This new path I must lead will lead me to europhoria"
I think we all go through feelings like this.
I feel like I cannot get a hold of my emotions these days too. Seems like mine change by the hour...it's a roller coaster for sure. So you're not alone. I try to tell myself "next year at this time......fill in the blank....." I don't want to wish away time, but it's about the only bright spot I have at this point...so I'm going with it.
We're here for you Buckeye! Lean on us when it's all so overwhelming. Big hugs!
And congrats on being a homeowner...on your own! You go girl!!! :)
HUGS to you.
Buck,
Hi. You're hitting an important milestone in the process: closing on the house. It's a line of demarcation. It's naturally going to hit you like a ton of bricks as you move along this process. These feelings won't last forever.
Recovery is day-to-day. You'll feel like crap for a while. That's OK. Cry when you need to cry and let it out. You'll find as each day goes by you'll feel a little bit better than the day before. Yes, you'll have relaspes (that's what you're feeling now) because of certain events - like closing on the house or a stupid broken garage door.
Here's my suggestions for getting through this rough spot and helping you move on:
First, find a way to safely release your frustration and anger. When I hit this
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
What is it w/ these garage doors?
Sorry to here you are having one of those days.
Emom13
Oh honey.........I sit here and cry listening to your post.
I had to smile when I read your post--there is someone out there feeling the same way that I do! I just started the seperation/divorce process about two weeks ago with my husband. I have been married 6 years, we have no children. But, I was extremely unhappy in my marriage, and had been for a long time. Its a long story, but I feel the same way you do- even though we had a rocky marriage with mostly downs rather than ups, I still am sitting here having a very hard time. I cannot even imagine my life without him at the moment and I am really quiestioning is this what I really want? Even though, I know that my only other option would be to stay in a relationship that is not healthy and not what I truly wanted out of a marriage.
All I can hope for is that things will get better with time, that these feelings will begin to subside, and that hopefully, one day, we can all move on with our lives. I am with ya girl, I know its hard.