barely surviving ...

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Registered: 05-07-2006
barely surviving ...
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Mon, 07-31-2006 - 3:18pm

just when i think i'm doing "ok" ... today MIL called me desperate for money to pay light bill because STBX "doesn't have the money" (yeah, right), but he flew in skank GF from out of town this past wednesday & MIL said STBX and skank left the house and didn't return until yesterday and when they did, STBX started packing up his stuff and moved out!! apparently, MIL said he's moving into his business location (WTH??). anyhow, MIL says skank GF is highly influencing STBX because he admitted that he's learned a lot from her regarding this experience he's going through. so, how nice that's he with a woman who not only condones his blatant abandonment of his sons, but also is encouraging more cruelty.

i'm at my wits end. i'm soooo angry that he gets to spend all his money and time and energy on this woman, and have this carefree life, she and him & i'm desperately trying to make ends meet because STBX said he isn't paying any child support until the courts make him pay ... our first court date for temp orders won't be until end of the month. and even after that, he gets the free and easy and single life, with this woman he says he's going to start a family with & he's spending alll his time, money, and everything with her and did not ever want to do anything with me and now for even his children.

i just don't understand & it's so difficult to move on. how, how do i move beyond this; i can't even with counseling, this is so frustrating ... i just don't ever think he'll get his for doing this, he pretty much has gotten everything in life that he wants & this is just another example ... he gets to be happy and i get to be emotionally exhausted ...

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 08-05-2006 - 10:11pm

You might be emotionally exhausted for the moment.... but his whole LIFE will be emotional turmoil.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~