To be or not to be - petty that is

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2007
To be or not to be - petty that is
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Mon, 09-24-2007 - 10:52pm

My STBX & I don't have a complete, formal financial settlement yet.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 12:04am
i I understand what you are talking about but just a couple of things to think about . Summer camp is ALWAYS optional. You did very well to pay for the kids to go but that was an extra . and child support and alimony can be very difficult for any dad to have to deal with . your confusion and pain have to be an issue here as well. but honestly both people in the marriage suffer but none to the extent of the kids. I live this nightmare every day. you and your stbx are better off that so many others financially . but honestly i work all day and then wait tables at night just to make the ends meet . so i really understand this very difficult situation . Just give it some real thought .
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2006
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 12:28pm
I don't think you are being petty at all.