Bear with me .... court today ......

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Bear with me .... court today ......
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Tue, 10-18-2005 - 4:47am
We apparently WERE on the non-contested track. But after today, its now been moved to the "Contested Track" &

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 6:01am

That's too bad you had to go to the contested side of things. It costs more money that way so in the end you both lose out on money. I guess he doesn't think of it that way, men!!!!

Awesome that you are dating!! Have a great time.

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 7:08am

GGRRR!!! What a MORON!!! So, because his loser behind won't work YOU have to pay up? That's crazy!!! Yes, I am going for post-separation support and alimony, but, I actually DID support him in his career. Heck, he didn't have a license for 2 years thanks to a DUI so I would get up at 5am most mornings, get the kids up and dressed, pack them into the car and drive him to work. It didn't matter if I was sick, if the boys were sick, if it was raining, snowing, sleeting, several times I had to do it when there was ice or a couple of inches of snow on the roads (not a huge deal in most places, but I'm in the mountains....lots of hills, curves, and tourists driving too fast in it b/c they think their $50k SUV can do that) If he closed the store then I had to do the same, only it would be around 12-1am. Last summer I had a miscarriage and had to have an emergancy D&C b/c of complications. I had the surgery at 9pm, got home around 11pm. This idiot woke me up at 5am telling me to take him to work!!! Not only that, but he had an order from my OB that I

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 10:06am
Glad to hear you are fighting for what is yours. I am too and now my husband is crying and talking about suicide too because he is about to lose everything. What's with that? They ruin their lives and their marriage and then can't deal with what they have done. We are the ones hurt and in pain and they never thought about us while being with the ow. He owns a successful business and didn't want to go to court. He said he would give me anything if we could make a list of my needs and take it to an atty of my choice and we would not have to pay attys all our money. I just spoke to his mom ( they are totally sicke and devestated by all he has done) she said she emailed him to see how he was doing and he said, how would you be if you were going to have to give up alot of $$$. He is now telling me he wants a chance after he said there was no hope just a few weeks ago. Now I am his soulmate. It goes on and on. I am going through this divorce and hope he doesn't do anything stupid, I told him that his dd would never understand . I think it is empty threats too, because i believe he is a narcissist, it is and has always been about him, but he has never really cried either, but then again, my sister said he should win an acedemy award for his acting. He shocked everyone so I guess he is a great actor.
Well, stay strong and way to go. You are doing the right thing.
Lisa
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 5:33pm
My heart goes out to you. Just like the last poster said... stay strong! You're doing the right thing.