in the beginning, looking for support

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Registered: 02-15-2008
in the beginning, looking for support
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Fri, 02-15-2008 - 2:55pm

Hello. My names Meg, and I just started the process to my divorce earlier this week. I've only been married for 2 years, but it was 2 years too long. I made a huge mistake and married someone who didn't have the same ideals about marriage that I did, and didn't begin to value me until he realized he was losing me. But its too late for him.


Ladies that have filed for divorce, how and when did you tell your ex's? I just sent off the lawyer fee's today, and because of where I am, it can take 3-4 weeks for us to finish the paperwork and file with the courts. But I'm not sure when I should tell him. Right now, I'm thinking after I file, but before he receives the papers. What do you guys think?

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Registered: 02-07-2008
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 6:55pm

Fist off you have to make sure you are safe.

KLM