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| Thu, 03-31-2005 - 11:18pm |
This news is the best news I could have ever gotten in my whole life!!!!!!
The GAL report came in the mail today and (drum roll ladies)...HE SAYS, THAT I AM THE FAR BETTER PARENT AND THAT LEAVING MY LITTLE GIRL IN THAT HOUSEHOLD WOULD BE DETRIMENTAL TO HER EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH!!!!!!!!! He says, that the other children (my step children) would be by far the Worst influence on a 6 year old. He is RECOMMENDING that, SOUL CUSTODY of my daughter be given to me and no more overnights with dad until he gets his life and those of his kids under control...
I am doing the happy dance like you wouldn't believe!!! My STBX had me doubting myself through this whole thing (as usual). But there is a GOD that saw to it that my daughter's best interest was seen! I am soooooooooooo Happy!!!!!
It's like a life time of stress has been lifted off of my shoulders. The body aches, the heartaches, the doubt, the fog is finally gone!!!! This man was finally exposed for the real person that he is and I wasn't the one who exposed him! He dug his own grave...HA!HA!HA!
You know the most comical part of this is, HE was the one that requested a GAL be assigned to our case and it came back to BITE HIM IN THE A$$!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SU%KS to be him come the contempt of court hearing April 11! I wonder what he will tell the Judge now...

Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
That is great news!!! congratulation with all my heart, I am very happy for you. I am sure you are celebrating with your little one, take her out to a movie!!!
a hug to both.
Dear Smiley,
You mean I'm not the only one who has been faced with this dilemma?
The only advice I can give you, is to TELL THE TRUTH!!! Follow your instinct and tell your atty. absolutely everything that happens/happened with your H. If your H is anything like mine, he will expose himself just by APPEARING to be perfect!!! It is a very painful time for all of us, but your husband will dig his own grave to say the least!
You say that your husband says and does inappropriate things, what does he do? How old are your children? Are they old enough to voice what they have seen? My 6 yo told the GAL that "my dad used to beat up on my mom all the time". I didn't think she had seen anything, but she had. Now she is the one who told on Dad. The GAL was NOT impressed with my H or his living arrangements. It seems that "Dad" came across just a little TOO PERFECT for the GAL to believe anything that my H said.
Sweetie, take heart...you will come out being the better person for it. I will NOT tell you not to worry, as I know, that is a feat lost. Your life, and that of your children, is what you make of it. Continue doing what you have always done for the sake of your children. DO NOT, change anything, because children adapt better when their schedules are not interrupted. Children learn what they are taught.
If I can be of any help to you, or you just need a friend, let me know. I am and always will be, a bleeding heart for those of us that have been used and abused and whose children have suffered because of stupidity.
HUGE HUGS and keep your chin up. No use getting rug burns too!!! LOL!