Best time to leave after holidays??
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Best time to leave after holidays??
| Mon, 10-23-2006 - 1:54pm |
What do you all think is the best time to leave?? I am determined to leave after Christmas but not sure how to go about doing it. Should I tell him it's over and find a place or tell him to find a place or what?? ANY suggestions welcome

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I guess since your AP's wife already left - maybe you should too. Don't know if there are kids involved. Let your H go and find the love he deserves... Why does he have to be the one that leaves?
You could do what my now ex-H did he left my 5 year old (oh excuse me he wasn't leaving his child - just me LOL) the week before Thanksgiving....
Edited 10/23/2006 4:45 pm ET by lifeisgrand2005
I say... it's still early.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I think leaving before the holidays isn't such a bad idea. Last year my husband moved out and our divorce was announced to the kids two weeks before Christmas. Two weeks before is a bit on the close side, and I wouldn't recommend that, however this year they're fine. If you go in the next few weeks you have a chance to make the best of the holidays in an honest way.
If you choose to leave after, something you may want to consider is answering the questions your kids may have as to why you are leaving when you just spent all that time together as a "happy" family. They may wind up feeling lied to. I do know kids who felt their parents deceived them when they faked happiness through Christmas. I'm not saying this would be the best Christmas ever, but I don't think it's selfish to leave a month before Thanksgiving and two months before Christmas.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
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