Betrayed in NJ

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Registered: 07-01-2006
Betrayed in NJ
Sat, 07-01-2006 - 2:14am
OMG that sounds like me,The only thing is I have two kids,a daughter and a son.My daughter stayed with me but my son chose the lesser road meaning his father.My ex I think is buying my son like his parents brought him.My ex went out a brought my son a car even before he was old enough to drive,my daugter on the other hand gets nothing from him,he wouldn't be able to tell you when her Birthday is.anyway this guy(ex) tells everyone how he was treated,he did the running around,cheating.my son had to go to summer school and when I emailed the father asking for half the fee he took a fit.my son informed me that his father doesn't want me to pay for anything reguarding him(son)but why was it ok to take on full responsibility for that?oh by the way my ex's parents are very wealthy people and promised my daughter as they have done for other grandchildren to pay for her college,but they took it back because 1: she chose to stay with me
2:she wanted to be a couselor a psycologist and they wanted her to be a teacher.the "other grand kids got to chose whatever they wanted.my ex doen't talk to my dAUGHTER DOESN'T CALL HER EITHER.qanother thing I can't understand why my son chose his father over me,his father used to threatned him saying things like I'll shove a screw driver down your throat! he has even told the lawyers that He will sell the kids.......He was trying to get out of payin alimony.he uses my son as some sort of savior for himself,Guess in his bar friends eye I WAS THE WICKED PERSON.he would tell them that even the kids hated me.how could he say things that are not true,I never cheated or threatned him like he did me.He would say I'll shoot you...does he tell his so called friends that OH NO!!that doesn't even put a dent in what he did to us