BF having Emotional Affair
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|Mon, 12-09-2013 - 2:26am|
My bf of 8 years brokeup with me when I wanted to confront him about a girl (S) he had started showing interest lately (they had exchanged about 200+ emails in 10 days apart from their daily meetups). We havnt spoken to each other for 2 months since that day, although he occasionally emails me, to which I do not reply.
In 2009, we had a brief breakup of four months when he was caught spending excessive amount of time chatting with a girl (M) on the net. He begged me to come back and even followed me to another country where I had gone holidaying. That time I asked him to cut any and all contact with M to which he agreed and promised.
Just a couple of weeks back I found out that he actually did not break any contact with this girl (M) and they have been calling, chatting, texting and meeting. I blindly trusted him for all these years and now I am very hurt and angry. I feel deceived and betrayed.
I want to know if I should confront him on my latest discovery (about M and his secret meetings and chats) or let time take its own course. I want to heal and move on. I have been writing and keeping a diary about my feelings, but it has not been very helpful. I sit and talk to myself, assuming he is in front of me and vent my anger and cry. Still to no avail. I am on anti-depressants and low bp pills.
I feel I should sort this issue with him one-to-one and ask him WHY?? On the other hand I am not sure if this is the right approach. Please, I need guidance.