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BIG BIG Problem
| Thu, 05-24-2007 - 5:16pm |
I don't know what to do. I have my plan to leave. He still has no clue. I found an apt, everythings all set...the day just has to arrive. (Next Thursday) My intention was to have some people help me get my stuff out while he's at work. But guess what? He calls me at work today and tells me he may have just lost his job. Now, I don't know if that was his way of telling me he did without actually telling me (he's not very good at keeping a job - one of the MANY reasons I'm leaving) or if there is a chance he still has a job. He's actually employed thru an agency, so maybe they will have another client who could use him right away. I hope, because WHAT AM I GOING TO DO IF HE'S NOT WORKING?!?!??!! I can't pack my stuff while he's home. He'd probably beat me up. Or something. He's crazy. I never know what to expect from him...it's not about me leaving..it's about me taking the kids. He could care less about me. All I know is that when I get home tonight, he better not tell me he's fired. I don't know what I'm gonna do. How am I going to get out without him finding out where I'm going? By doing it while he was at work, gave me time to go to my new place. It bought me time to think. Now I don't know. I'm so confused. I need a plan B. Has anyone ever left like this? Without him knowing? He's abusive, so it's my only option - there is no reasoning with him.

Good luck to you!
Amanda
Just remember that anything material can be replaced. But you and your kids can not be. So if stuff has to be left, it can be replaced. Oh yeah get pictures you want.
I'm glad to hear that he didn't wind up losing his job... keep us posted...