A bit more drama before the day is over-
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A bit more drama before the day is over-
| Wed, 03-08-2006 - 5:04pm |
Ok so as if this day hasn't drained me enough already I got told that the woman my husband wanted to have an affair with needed to contact me.

How I can relate to "how our spouces can become perfect strangers"!!!!
My husband came over on Sunday to give me a check and gave me divorce papers in addition. It was the first time I had seen them (even though he told everyone he has been trying to give them to me and I am refusing). Anyway, it was drama...a long story but I wanted to post to you and tell you that when he came over and was so hateful...I kept staring at him trying to find him. I was looking into his eyes lookig for the sweet man I have spent the last 13 years with and I couldn't find him. I was so calm and I think it was pissing him off.
I wrote him a letter and told him as much as it hurt to tell him: He is dead to me. The old him is no longer there. Maybe it's easier for me to cope that way, to think he is "gone". I've heard in cases like this, divorce is harder to deal with emotionally than death.
Anyway, I can truly relate, it's very strange and sureal....
Hey there...
I've just been reading this post and your other ones and I wanted to send lots of hugs your way... it sounds like this is turning into about as big of a mess as it can be for many of the parties involved and cannot be easy to deal with... one thing my xh still needs to figure out is that it isn't all about him anymore...
*hugs*
Julie