Bittersweet news......

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Registered: 05-02-2007
Bittersweet news......
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Fri, 05-25-2007 - 8:49am

Well, the sweet part of it all is yesterday STBX signed over the house. The house I built and raised my children in now belongs to ME! Just me!

The bitter part is how easy it was for him to just sign it all over.....like nothing, like it meant nothing. I guess he really didn't have a choice, I get that with the formalities of the divorce and everything...

After the porn videos, I think for the first time in the whole time I've known him, I actually felt hatred for him. It was a very real feeling that I have never felt before with him. I know I'll be okay and this bad feeling I have for him won't fester and hurt me anymore....and I honestly believe this feeling I feel for him, this hatred, will help me move on. Does that make any sense?

He moves out Tues. He took the boat today and went fishing with his friends. Must be nice.

Please keep me in your thoughts....though I'm feeling a little sad about the reality of this finally nearing the end....my inner peace is literally a couple days away :)

Hugs!
Jennifer

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Registered: 02-23-2006
Fri, 05-25-2007 - 12:55pm

(((((((jennifer)))))))))

i am happy for you, but i also feel your sadness. i lost my home to foreclosure. i understand your comment on how easy it was for him to let it go. i had a similar experience. my stbx felt he was saving money by allowing the bank to take the house back.

regardless, you are still in your home. good for you. maybe you could do some painting and redecorating to relfect the new inner peace that awaits you.

best wishes and congrats

what

what
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Registered: 05-12-2007
Fri, 05-25-2007 - 4:01pm

Sending lots of hugs your way.

 


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