blood work came back....

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Registered: 03-29-2003
blood work came back....
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Mon, 10-29-2007 - 10:53pm

negative!!!! Thanks to all of you who advised me to get the STD testing. I am so glad I ruled that out! It's hard enough that I am dealing with the possible dissolution of my marriage to have to worry about a sexually transmitted disease. Thanks again!


For those of you who are following my saga... I haven't decided yet what I am going to do. Many people advised me to stay others to run the opposite way. I am not too hopeful but I think the marriage deserves a chance; however' I have to see what the risks are and the payoffs.....I am scared and demoralized. That's why this decision is so hard for me. On one hand, I don't want to be my mother and take everything that comes my way and be the eternal submissive wife, but on the other hand; we had a great marriage for many years....


Yes, there was an affair (or two) , yes we have been separated for 3 years, yes, he says he loves someone else.. BUT... he's also willing to cut ties (try to anyway) with her and give our marriage a try. He says that, it will be difficult, but that because of DS, he is willing to give it a try.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 9:05am

I'm glad that the test results were favorable :-)


Ya know.... only YOU know when it's time to give him a little more time.... or toss in the towel... and until you're ready, you just need to sit and wait.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 02-07-2005
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 11:51am
Well I don't know all the details so please take this with a grain of salt.
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Tue, 10-30-2007 - 6:57pm

First off Congratulations on your results... I'm glad to hear they came back just the way you had hoped!


As for your decision... like Karen said, only you know when its time.

 


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Thu, 11-01-2007 - 7:52pm

Thanks all