bold face liar in court!
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| Wed, 09-06-2006 - 11:35pm |
argh!!
ok, fortunately, i haven't had to lay eyes on STBX since may, when he skipped out of DSs championship baseball game to take skank GF on a luxurious on vacation to east coast to meet and stay with friends i've known for 14 years, but truly turned out to be STBX pitiful friends (he can HAVE them!), but today, first court day, i did, and i was FURIOUS ... didn't know this new "ruling" that couples have to go through mediation even before temp. orders, so, still, since early june, since 2004, really, i haven't received ANY support from STBX, oooh, but that's not the doozie!
tried to maintain my Dominique Devereaux composure, but the floor-length was about to come off! first, STBX avoids server for like 3 weeks, then when he does finally get served 2 weeks before court date, he shows up with his attorney, who talks and looks like the guy from Will and Grace, Karen's nemesis, whose favorite line i love, "not as interesting when it speaks" anyhow, gets up there in front of judge (all of his 4-foot-9-inch self) like he knows alllll about me and just proceeds to LIE!! "my client has been denied access to his sons since his wife removed the children from his home 3 months ago." uh, HELLOOO ... idiot STBX told me to "come and pick up your sons and raise them yourself & i'll see them when they get 18" also have him on tape saying this!!!! AND his slimy atty, then says, that DSs had been with STBX the majority of time. uh, NOOOO, about 6 months out of the 2 years we've been separated, and even then i had the boys every week, 3 days out of the week. and when he had them, they were primarily been cared for by his MOTHER!! while he continued to jet-set out of town, or rip up and down the road to visit skank GF!!
then attorney goes to say that i don't deserve spousal support because throughout entire marriage i've made significantly more than STBX ... uh, HELLLLOOO ... i've been laid off my job recently, and i'm NOT the one pulling in $10K a month as an "entre-manure" driving around in 2 luxury cars, owns a business location, a home (have bank statements that specify STBX making $90K in 8 months!! plus, loan application, in his handwriting, stating business makes more than $150K in sales ... attny says he makes on average $40K a year!!!
i'm FUMING! anyone out there dealing with self-employed STBX and hiding money, and how do these cases usually fair out? again, i just see this as another thing going his way, and no matter i do, HE seems to just keep winning!!! (e.g., my atty fought for him to pay mediation bill due to my unemployment status, but judge blew it off, said i could apply for assistance, but still responsible for mediation. i have a feeling the spousal support will be thrown out, too, and child support will be waaay low based on his lying on tax returns, some $50K less than what he makes vs. what was reported.
AND he wants to fight me for custody. i don't feel like i'm making any headway, but at least i looked FIERCE today (that was the ONLY plus); in the interim, i just keep documenting like when DSs call STBX and he won't return phone calls, and how he spent father's day weekend with skank GF instead of his sons, which they wanted to see him, etc.
he's a hot mess!!
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You've got the documentation to back up most of his lies.... so his time will come.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I don't know how you keep it together as well as you do! I hope they are able to uncover his real income and you get the support you deserve.