Borrowing money...UGH!

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Registered: 01-13-2004
Borrowing money...UGH!
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Fri, 09-08-2006 - 12:32pm

Well, I had to borrow another $100 from a friend to get me till next Friday. I feel like such a loser.

This is the 2nd time she offered, and I had to accept.

I just feel like such a charity case..and the worst part about it is that rotten S.O.B. STBX has all sorts of money to be doing whatever he wants even after he pays me! I'm just trying to stay above water with the two kids. It's just not fair.

Venting again. Geez. I'm getting my miles on this board this week! he he
Thanks all!
Jennifer

Jennifer

Proud Mom of Travis (15) and Mandi (10)

and our pets, Sully the Dog and Till

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 1:13pm

Jenn,

Don't worry about it. It's wonderful to have friends like her to support you. I am sure she knows you will pay her back, and that you would loan to her if situations were reversed.

Kerry

(btw, where in CT are you? I live in W. Hfd and work in E. Hfd)

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Sat, 09-09-2006 - 10:35am

Jenn, I know it stinks to be in that position. But if the friend is willing and able, accept it. You need help right now. Like you, I HATE accepting help. But you are NOT a charity case. This is just a hard time right now, and you will get through.


So when are we going to hang out and listen to some heavy metal and watch Braveheart! I'm an old metalhead, too ;)