Called him trying to be civil he refused
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| Mon, 09-26-2005 - 9:55am |
Well I called my ex on Saturday at one last attempt to try to get in gear at being civil towards each other since we would have to be dealing with each other again with the baby.
He was his usual nasty self. Still complaining about how he wants "his stuff". I have never seen someone so MATERIALISTIC before in my life. Its really disgusting. When he first started flipping out about this almost 2 weeks ago I asked him what he wanted, he told me whatever there was 2 of. Which meant tv, dvd, vcr and stereo. Then he changed and included the computer and the other stereo. Im like what. That's not 1 of everything. I said look if we can agree on the items we will draw it up in writing, we both sign that this is what we agree on and be done with it. He REFUSED.
So here we are back to Saturday and he's going on and on and again I said hey I tried to compromise with you, will you sign an agreement, again he refused. Started talking dirt about my family and how me and him dont have to be civil to each other etc. So I ended up hanging up because he was being emotionally abusive as usual. This went on back and forth for a bit. Then he was like do I really have time to take off from work to keep going back to court. He says he was waiting to see if "we" could work things out before he gives the list of things to his lawyer that he wants. So it's like now he's trying to scare me into giving him stuff. I dont think so.
Then he calls back roughly a half hour later and all of a sudden says he sees I have been trying to be civil and he can try but he hasnt been able to up to now because of the stuff. So wait... NOW, he wants to be civil! Someone must have told him that he doesnt have a good chance of getting anything from the house.
Then yesterday he calls me and Im like what's going on. He says, I said we should be civil so he was calling to see how I was and how the baby was. So I said he's fine Im fine and I cant talk right now im in the middle of something and that was that. Are you kidding me. He wants to be civil now. He thinks he is so slick. He just wants material things. He hasnt cared about me or the baby all this time and still doesnt care about me. I guess I'll see him in court again.

He's taking me to court for joint custody of our son on thursday. Now he's also threatening to court to "sue" me for "his" so called material items in the apartment. He's been gone for over a year and a half and he wants material stuff now. I asked him why now and he said now he has room for it, he may be moving out of his grandmother's house. I tried to come to an agreement with him about the stuff. Asking if he wants one of whatever there is 2 of that we would both have to sign an agreement stating this is what we agree on and he said he's not signing nothing! He wont cooperate.
He first said one of whatever there was 2 of. Then he keeps adding on more things. Thats not fair. Why should I give up things that my son and I have been accustomed to so he can share it with another woman after all he put me through.
And he wont even sign an agreement. He thinks he can keep coming back for more or something. All this time Ive tried to be civil for the sake of our son and he didnt want to do that, has been and is still being disrespectful to me and Im the mother of his child. But he can pretend to want to be civil now b/c he wants stuff from the house. Isnt that rather slimly.
I know. Especially since he said he now has room for it, suggesting he's moving to a new place and now he wants to take stuff from me to furnish the new place. I dont think so. I would always keep the receipts for things we bought. And even if he did have some it's been over a year and a half. Its in my apt. and his name was never on the lease. I gave him a chance and he said over and over he's not signing any agreements so oh well.
How could he be this low.