can i date yet?

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Registered: 04-04-2006
can i date yet?
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Wed, 11-14-2007 - 8:16pm

ok so my hubby && i seperated (not legally) and he moved out. Is it illegal or immoral to date someone? How soon is too soon? what do you think

im not wanting to seriously have a relationship with someone, im basically wondering if i go to lunch with a guy and talk to him on the phone is that considered adultery? im really scared of that. please help me

michelle

i re-read my post && i realize it sounds like i dont care about my hubby. I do but he has pushed me away so many times i dont think i can live another year with him. He has been gone almost 2 weeks && i am sooo much happier now. I didnt realize how good this would feel. ( ok except for when i hear an occasional sad song and i cry)




Edited 11/14/2007 8:22 pm ET by kenzie06
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Registered: 09-05-2007
In reply to: kenzie06
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 9:53pm
I would be very careful about dating.
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Registered: 11-25-2003
In reply to: kenzie06
Thu, 11-15-2007 - 12:35pm

Adultery will be a legal definition that pertains to your state of residence (the state where you are getting the divorce).

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Registered: 04-04-2006
In reply to: kenzie06
Thu, 11-15-2007 - 4:08pm

= i told my hubby id give him one more chance, he moves back in sunda. I dont believe it will work but im willing to try. i feel bad because i dont want to lead this guy on and i know he really likes me. We have not kissed or been out together but it wouldnt take but just one thing to lead us down that road. I know he will have no future with me if I go out with him and he has a daughter and is looking for marriage. I dont want to to get married again anytime soon, obviously. I love spending time with him and I want him as a friend but im not ready to go out with him becuase all i think about is my hubby even though I want out of the marriage.

Thanks for the advice yall.

michelle
Mommy to you