These guys will threaten anything as a form of control. What you need to do is go see a lawyer. Some do free consultations and others will charge a small fee. Set up an appt to see what your rights are. You do NOT have to hire one but you can go and ask lots of questions. Write your questions BEFORE your appt so you are very prepared. Knowledge is power. Don't let your ex manipulate you. Also, document every threat and every thing he says. Research online for laws of your state. You will be very surprised with what information you will find!
Also I went to Borders Books and BOUGHT a Divorce in Michigan Book (they have them for most states), that had all the forms and break down of the steps for filling them out.
These guys will threaten anything as a form of control. What you need to do is go see a lawyer. Some do free consultations and others will charge a small fee. Set up an appt to see what your rights are. You do NOT have to hire one but you can go and ask lots of questions. Write your questions BEFORE your appt so you are very prepared. Knowledge is power. Don't let your ex manipulate you. Also, document every threat and every thing he says. Research online for laws of your state. You will be very surprised with what information you will find!
Good luck!
Tiffany