First of all, no one "suddenly" decides to get divorced. They've thought about it for a while - sometimes years before they actually walk out the door. So, as much as a surprise this is to you, your husband has been contemplating this action for a long time.
Secondly, I'm glad he agreed to go to counseling. Now here's my advice about how to use counseling to your full advantage:
I promise it will get better! You have had quite a shock, be patient with yourself and give yourself the opportunity to cry about it! You will get through this - somehow it will get easier as you view things one thing at a time, and take each minute one at a time.
******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over againHi Sandy,
First of all, no one "suddenly" decides to get divorced. They've thought about it for a while - sometimes years before they actually walk out the door. So, as much as a surprise this is to you, your husband has been contemplating this action for a long time.
Secondly, I'm glad he agreed to go to counseling. Now here's my advice about how to use counseling to your full advantage:
1)Approach counseling in the spirit of
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