this can't be happening

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2008
this can't be happening
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Sun, 03-02-2008 - 2:45pm
This is my first time posting. I've been looking for support or something.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Sun, 03-02-2008 - 3:24pm
Firstly, is it possible that there is a 3rd party involved?

 

 

 

 

 

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2006
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 1:06pm

Hi Sandy,


First of all, no one "suddenly" decides to get divorced. They've thought about it for a while - sometimes years before they actually walk out the door. So, as much as a surprise this is to you, your husband has been contemplating this action for a long time.


Secondly, I'm glad he agreed to go to counseling. Now here's my advice about how to use counseling to your full advantage:


1)Approach counseling in the spirit of

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2008
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 1:26pm
thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 8:09pm
I promise it will get better! You have had quite a shock, be patient with yourself and give yourself the opportunity to cry about it! You will get through this - somehow it will get easier as you view things one thing at a time, and take each minute one at a time.