can't believe he did it...now what?
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| Sat, 12-08-2007 - 10:39pm |
So puzzled right now. I just got back from a week trip with a co-worker, which made my bad marriage worse. It turned out we are a perfect match for eachother. But we were very well behaved and nothing happened. Part of why nothing happened is because I took all of it "out" in my journal.
Been back for only a few hours and my H started asking me why I was being weird (this meant that I was actually happy - he was confused that I wasn't miserable). I told him that maybe we should focus on our son right now and our jobs because our marriage isn't working. He took this surprisingly well.
Then he read my diary while I was in the store. It pretty clearly stated that nothing happened on the trip, but now he can't convince himself it isn't over. What do I do now? How does this conversation work?
I actually left him 2 1/2 years ago, but that was before I had our son and I could just pick up and leave.

I can't help you much there, except to say that I am pretty much in your shoes right now.