closure needed

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2005
closure needed
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Sun, 11-20-2005 - 7:54am
Im getting married on December 17, I have been divorced for over 2 years and I still do not have closure. I have tried to get my ex, through email, to help with this but it didnt go as planned. It always starts out Hi how are you and ends up you lousy cheating....i emailed him last night to let him know that Im tired of fighting and that with my marriage and possible move across country I didnt wnat any extra baggage hanging around me. I know he probably wont repsond, so does anyone know how to reach this closure when all the kids cant play nicely in the sandbox?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: emmylu2001
Wed, 11-23-2005 - 3:18pm

Now you have closure. It was a gift you had to give TO YOURSELF.

Your life. Your power. Your emotions. You decide what to think and feel. We cannot hold our breath hoping someone else will fix our "things" for us!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2005
In reply to: emmylu2001
Wed, 11-23-2005 - 4:43pm
thank you so much for all of your concern. I feel so much better...sometimes something so small as a little push in the right direction will do the trick.

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