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| Mon, 04-18-2005 - 2:32pm |
Why oh why were my responses to the poster (ibcyo?) who talks about reconciling with his wife and who stated he was mentally abusive and cruel to her, why were my responses deleted? I am very upset about this. Are responses deleted because they happen to not have been supportive of that particular poster? Do you leave all the responses of steinberg7381 which has nothing but women bashing and take out my responses just because I don't feel sympathetic to a man who was abusive towards his wife? Yes, I did not send "HUGS" to him, because I will not send hugs to a man who was mean to his wife. I very much not appreciate having my responses deleted because maybe my response was to wake the man up to see what he was doing to his wife. I cannot believe you deleted those things while leaving all the verbally abusive things steinberg7381 writes to everyone in his posts. Please respond - I am very hurt by this. I have written my own story on some boards and believe me there were some people who were not supportive as well but their opinion is just as valid as anyone else's as long as it is not abusive. Please respond-this bothers me immensely. As long as I do not verbally abuse others in my post (unlike some people) I believe everyone has a right to speak their mind. Are we not living in a democratic nation?

Hugs,
"I'm so sorry you are upset :)
Hugs to you sweetie."
Hey, I'm upset too! Don't I get a hug as well?
Hi smiley.....
If your posts were removed, you would have received an e mail stating the reason.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Hope you take this in the right grain.
Sure! You can have a hug too.....
I think what is important here is wording in a place where typing is the only way to communicate needs to be extra sensitive, especially when it comes to an extra sensitive subject like this one.
Smiley my dear...some of my posts were deleted too, so don't take it personally! We know that the poster riled us up and we became defensive. This is a support board afterall, and there was some tempers flaring (as was mine). I got defensive because I hurt so bad right now as you are and didn't appreciate the poster's response.
It's OK...we will have to try a little harder not to let it get the best of us...we are good people!
Huge hugs, sweetie!
Melanie