Thank you for your support. Hugs. The moment has lessened some. I just get so darn mad that this woman is doing all this stuff. She has no rights, yet. She's sending things to me through the mail, in my STBX's name, etc. He has taken me off his car insurance, he's making all these changes, even before we're divorced. My health insurance is next. I'm going to try to stall the divorce as much as possible, it'll give me a chance to save up some money to get myself a "cut throat lawyer". I'm not going to sit back, wither away. This OW has only added more fuel to the fire. She may be helping my stbx with sex and showing him how to work the system and beat the law.
Dear Confused, I wholeheartedly agree with you, am looking at 30 years tossed aside by H's midlife crisis.
Hi Rhea,
Don't let any of that bother you.