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Confused
| Fri, 07-20-2007 - 4:12pm |
This is my 1st time posting here, althoguth I've been a lucker for some time. I have been separated from my H (of 5yrs togther 7) now for 10 months. I had him move out when I found out about his affairs, and son. (which is 4 months younger then our youngest) Now over these last 10 months many things have happened. But, I have felt that he hasn't REALLY made an effort for rebuild, so things have remained the same. He blames me for us remaining apart. Now get this today he text me asking who's car was parked in my drive-way 3 weeks ago at 2:30 a.m.??? WTF? no one. I just don't understand these last 10 months he's the one that has done the disappearing act, with me and our girls. yet he's still checking up on me, or making up false accuations??? What am I missing. I have talked to a lawyer and have really thought about filing. It just seems so.... I guess I just have been living in a fantasy and just hoped he'd come to his sences want our marraiage and come home and do the things that would be needed to rebuild, and now I'm thinking it's time just finish things up, so that chapter is finished.

I think his recent actions have made things clear to you... and now you know what your next move needs to be.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~