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Confused and empty........
| Thu, 04-24-2008 - 1:41pm |
Hi everyone,
I have been looking around on here for approximately 3 weeks and finally decided to post as I can see that there are many situations that are very similar to mine.
My husband and I have been married for approximately 9 years but together for over 12 years.

My advice: see a lawyer. You need to plan as if he isn't coming back, and protect yourself and your children. You don't have to actually DO anything right now, but you need to know what you'll have to do when and if you decide to pull the trigger. I would not allow this to go on more than a couple of weeks without changing the locks. He is causing an enormous amount of pain and confusion to his children with his behavior, and you need to disallow it shortly.
If my son wanted to move back home under the circumstances you've described, by leaving his wife and children while he decides if it's "what he wants," I would be ashamed that I had raised such a person and I'd tell him to find another place to shack up. He's being incredibly selfish and irresponsible.
Cat
Mom to 5: DS-17, DD-16, DD-11, DD-9, DS-7
I may be wrong, but I'd guess that he's still (or again) having an affair.
Hello stormey4,
My recomendation is that you post on the betrayed spouses board.
Hi again everyone!
I honestly do not believe that he is having another affair right now.