confused,lost,lonely
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confused,lost,lonely
| Sun, 11-20-2005 - 2:28pm |
I am a 31 year old woman. Married 11.5 years, together 15. we have never been good at communication. just swept stuff under the rug.....but no big issues, just lots of stress( nursing school, he's a cop, moves, babies) he left 6 weeks ago, says he fell out of love. but he has done things since he left that shows me he still wants to be with me. I don't know how to decipher his actions..but i'm too scared to ask him..I don't want to hear the truth. I am so scared. I want him to come home. I love him and miss him. any advice would be helpful.thank you.

I know you are scared to ask him, but you need to. You say you are miserable right now anyways. Ask him if there is a way this marriage can be saved as you still have feelings for him. Maybe you could see a marriage counsler together to get over the issues that have taken you relationship here. Also, he said he's not in love with you but is showing you otherwise you say. Actions speak louder than words. Maybe he wants to come back also but his pride is keeping him from saying so. So really, let him know how you feel. Good Luck. DESI
Hello ProudMom,
Uncertainty is far more painful than knowing.
Peace,
Di
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