Oh buckeye, what a pain that must be living so close. Maybe you could plant some fast growing bushes all around the property ;) Glad you didn't run in the house! I too, had to phone my STBX on a few occasions early on in the separation b/c I couldn't figure something out regarding the house. I HATED to do it, and have now resorted to calling some friends for assistance instead.
As far as the mechanic in your vehicle, that's your business. We tend to get paranoid and want to "explain" things. I phoned my stbx this morning to let him know that my horse dentist, who comes in from the states, might be crashing at the house tonight b/c out of all his clients, I live the closest to the airport. I have no idea why I had to justify that one!!! I guess as time goes on it will get easier, but thank goodness his apartment is in town and I'm out in the country. (Oh, and it might be good if your stbx thinks something is going on with the mechanic;)
Oh buckeye, what a pain that must be living so close. Maybe you could plant some fast growing bushes all around the property ;) Glad you didn't run in the house! I too, had to phone my STBX on a few occasions early on in the separation b/c I couldn't figure something out regarding the house. I HATED to do it, and have now resorted to calling some friends for assistance instead.
As far as the mechanic in your vehicle, that's your business. We tend to get paranoid and want to "explain" things. I phoned my stbx this morning to let him know that my horse dentist, who comes in from the states, might be crashing at the house tonight b/c out of all his clients, I live the closest to the airport. I have no idea why I had to justify that one!!! I guess as time goes on it will get easier, but thank goodness his apartment is in town and I'm out in the country. (Oh, and it might be good if your stbx thinks something is going on with the mechanic;)
Hope your day gets better!