Crashing and burning.....HELP!

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Registered: 05-02-2007
Crashing and burning.....HELP!
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 3:24pm

I don't know how much more I can handle. I know I've told you this over and over again, but today was a really bad day.

That idiot STBX is emailing me all this nonsense and he's driving me nuts! I finally blocked his emails. He actually had the nerve to tell me he wishes I would help him out more with the kids being so upset about the OW moving home! Is he nuts? He just went on and on and ended it with, it just "wasn't time for us".

What a slap in the face, this man is nuts! Why does he continue to want to hurt me? I know, I allow it in by reading the emails, thus blocking them now, but really, how sick and how much could a human being truly want to hurt another person? Someone that loved him so much? I just don't understand.

I wrote back and told him to PLEASE go away, PLEASE leave me alone, I mean, the OW is moving home any day, why would he even bother with me unless it had to do with the kids? He's got everything he needs, he's had the world at his fingertips for almost 3 years now. Without skipping a beat.

I just need some encouragement, please tell me I'm going to be able to deal....

Hugs, and thank you.
Jennifer

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 6:12pm
Jennifer, You will be fine. Just take it one day at a time, one minute at a time if that is all you can handle. You are doing just great. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Do something special just for you each day, can be something as simple as taking a bath or a walk. You are going to make it. Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 3:36pm

I would tell him... "why is it MY job to help the kids with YOUR life?"


Sure, I do my share of coddling over the OW when the kids talk about her... and I never EVER say negative things about her.... but it's up to HER and EX to help the kids buy into their new life.... not mine!


I'd just tell him that you aren't hindering his life, but you sure don't plan to help it either.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~