Custody is now set up.

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Custody is now set up.
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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 8:29pm

Got that squared away on Wednesday. After two continuances. One my lawyer and one the STBX "having" to go away for work. It was painless. Well besides the fact I was in my head calling him a so and so. He agreed to my plans. My lawyer went to him and got him to agree to them and got them drawn up for us. Judge has to wave his little pen and sign them and they are official.

Then I went the domestics office to file for support. Lawyer figured do custody and then go for support so that he is more willing to be civil through custody arrangements. The rotten thing is STBX told me he probally is going away for work again in 2 weeks. Guess when the support hearing is? Yeah that will be pushed back. ARGH!!! The rate it is going for me I will have the divorce finalized BEFORE support goes in.

Even better still this is his weekend with the kids. He has to bring them back early because he "won" tickets to a hockey game on Sunday. He was gonna take the kids there but my son has a bday party at the time the hockey game would have been and he would have been late to the game. There is no hockey game. NONE! Checked both the minor league hockey teams in the area that he could have went to and one is away in NY and the other is home at 7pm. What bullcrud!

No wonder my son goes to me the other night "I want a new daddy".

47 days and a wake up till the divorce is final. As long as he signs but I have some little things that will make him sign with out a fight. My lawyer kicks butt!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 9:54am

"I want a new dad."


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 12:24pm
hugs... great taht your lawyer got things more or less the way you wanted. i'm sorry for your kids - its a shame that some parents - like your ex - choose to be such idiots...