cutting off contact with stbx

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Registered: 05-05-2005
cutting off contact with stbx
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Mon, 02-26-2007 - 4:52pm
I have decided until I can get him out of my life I can not get past this. I deleted his number from my phone. I wish I can block his calls to my cell some how. My goal is not to call him for

 

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Registered: 02-21-2007
Mon, 02-26-2007 - 11:26pm

I feel the same way I so want for my stbx not to talk to me anymore. I know I here from him 10 times a day. And everytime I talk to him I get angry
I know that time will heal all this and soon guess what we will be rid of them anyway

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Registered: 08-31-2004
Tue, 02-27-2007 - 1:45pm

Hey there - i've been lurking for a few weeks here...

Just wanted to comment that I've just decided to do the same thing. STBX makes me so angry everytime I talk to him. I put a block on his number on my cell and it's goes straight to voice mail. There is no reason for me to talk to him anymore. I was sharing stories, pictures and etc about our DD but after one really degrading and upsetting call this week-end --I'm done. I just thought -- why am I still sharing my daily life with him? why do I give him the satifaction of still being apart of my life without having any of the responsibilites and affection that come along with being a huband-- something he sucked at anyway?! I am just letting him have his cake ( his freedom ) and eat it too ( still be in our life). Screw that. I'm cutting him out for good!!!

GL, I feel your pain...

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 02-28-2007 - 4:01pm

Hey, if he needs to tell you something significant, he can leave a voice mail and you can decide if and when you're going to contact him.


Good for you!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 02-28-2007 - 5:42pm

I installed a line in the house so that he can contact the kids. Costs me 29.00 per month.

Peace,

Di

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Registered: 09-01-2005
Wed, 02-28-2007 - 10:06pm
I screen all calls and will never speak to him. He will usually leave a message for one of the kids and not me because he finally got the message that I want nothing to do with him. It took many months for this to happen. I'm much happier not talking to him because all he would do is upset me and ruin my day. I decided to take control by not talking to him and I'm much better off for it.
Belinda