dating??? what dating??? whatever
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| Sat, 11-05-2005 - 2:28pm |
glups. I see your posts about dating after divorce, after separation, during. and I think it is such a great and lucky thing!!!
I am starting to feel completely a-sexual. My worries and my priorities do not include sex and mating anymore (??? or did they ever...). I am separated and living apart (different continents) since more than three years, on a very accepted and peaceful separation. I am still on good terms with my ex, but made clear on several situations that I do not want to get back together - and truly do not want to.
I am not an asexual person. I like men. I like people and life. I used to like relationships... now it feels like I can't be bothered - and the message must be heard loud and clear because guys don't even SEE me (and I am decent looking, nothing intimidating but fair). I wish someone would appear on the horizon, but ...
Is there something wrong with me??? 3 years are a LOOONG time. it feels lonely out here.

I feel the same way and it's been four years for me. I just came to the conclusion this week that what I'm really feeling is afraid of men. After twenty-three years of marriage, and a horrible divorce, I guess I'm just not into putting myself into that vulnerable position again. But then I get lonely and feel like I want a relationship.
I must be putting out the same "vibes", too, because no one shows any interest any more.
Sorry, I just don't have a solution or advice!
Edie
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~