Dating while going through a divorce
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Dating while going through a divorce
| Fri, 11-04-2005 - 2:04pm |
Hi All,
I've been separated since summertime while awaiting for my divorce to go through (which could be months). I was thinking how nice it would be to go out on occasion for dinner or to see a movie with someone of the opposite sex. I'm not looking for anything serious, just someone to do some things with. For those of you going through the divorce process, how long did you wait before dating?
Thanks, Belinda

Belinda,
From my own experience, I was emotionally ready to date before we even seperated.
I've been separated since this summer as well. STBX and I aren't fighting about anything, but our divorce isn't final yet either.
I do get out of the house. However, I have refrained from going out with someone of the opposite sex unless I'm going with a group of friends, such as a group of co-workers going out for happy hour.
The reason I am waiting is because I know I'm not ready for anything serious, and I can't imagine regularly going out with a man to have someone to do things with without one of us wanting more. The thought of going on a bunch of first dates doesn't appeal to me either.
When I don't have friends available on my nights when the kids are at their dad's house I either go shopping or tackle a house project.
Everyone is different. Do what feels right to you.
Hi Belinda....
I waited until the divorce was final.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~