Daughters first o/n with dad...
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Daughters first o/n with dad...
| Fri, 01-25-2008 - 2:13pm |
Ok...so tomorrow will be the first overnight for my daughter with her father and Im having palpitations right about now. Im dizzy and scared, ready to puke my guts up. Our daughter is 23 months and hasnt seen him since Oct. We agreed in court over some things and his visitation with her is one of them. His new fiance (yeah I moved out in Sept...shes 21 and thats an entirely different discussion - shes the reason we split) My daughter and I have never been apart for more than 8 hours and im not handling this well at all. Any advice is welcome. Im just about to burst thinking about it and my heart aches so much already.
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| Fri, 01-25-2008 - 5:23pm |
I totally know how you feel.
| Sat, 01-26-2008 - 7:29pm |
Hi, I'm really new to this separation thing. My boys are newly 4 and 9 and when I read your post my heart went out to you. It reminded me of a recent conversation I had with my oldest son. Although my husband wanted to see the boys whenever he wasn't at work, so some mornings that would be picking them up and taking them to school, some nights that would be 6pm to 8pm (bedtime). Although I wanted to be accomadating I felt that was a little unfair to me, like I had to base my whole schedule around him still even though we aren't together. I decided to sit down with my oldest son and have a heart to heart about it. At first he wouldn't open up but when I explained that if he didn't talk to me about how he was feeling I would have to base all my decisions on what I felt was right
