DD school program and X........

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Registered: 04-18-2003
DD school program and X........
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Mon, 11-07-2005 - 10:35pm

Both happy and sad for my DD. X did come to her program but left before she was done. He didn't even let her see that he was there mainly because he showed up late.

Thank God that he didn't bring his man-woman and their kid so that it was his time focused on our DD.

But I told her when it was over that he was there and I didn't know where he went. Seh said "But my dad didn't even talk to me? How come?" So I said do you want to call him and she said "Yeah mom can I?!" I said sure. (Mainly because I didn't want him to think I was keeping her from him.

So she calls and he blabbled on something of why he left early.

So geez what will make me happy - at least he came - but then what was the purpose if he didn't even say anything to her?

I was so proud of her tonight she was so beautiful. And he didn't even stick around to say hello or kiss her. If I was that close to my DD and that was his time. I be sure to give her a kiss and hug her but oh well.

Why can't I just say YOU LOSER YOU TAKE HER GRANTED AND YOU WILL LOSE IN THE END.....

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Registered: 10-21-2005
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 11:24pm
you can't say that because she is your DD..
my stbx is the same...comes to a soccer game late & leaves early..but he was "there"
everyone keeps saying what comes around goes around..he'll get his..but what do you do with your kids hurt feelings in the meantime?...I don't get it
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 9:05pm

My EX does the same thing.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 10:23pm
(((big hugs))) to you & dd.

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