Dealing with letting go
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Dealing with letting go
| Wed, 01-30-2008 - 5:17pm |
After 24 years of marriage, my husband says he loves me but is no longer in love with me. That was Oct. 5 07
He moved in with his parents two weeks later. I feel betrayed and rejected. I am so angry with him.
I know I need to let go and let myself heal, but I keep thinking if I wasn't enough for him , will I ever be enough for anyone? We have 3 kids 22, 19 and 16. I hurt for them. They are great kids and are dealing with this so wisely for people their age. I just want to get through this with dignity and grace. Any advice?

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The condo was not what I wanted.
I understand what you mean. My dinner last night with friends from church was great, but I realized I was the only one out of six that was in this situation. All the others are married. So, put on a happy face and talk about everything else.
I like having this venue to talk to people because we all understand to a degree what everyone is going through and have insights that those that haven't been in this situation don't have.
"The" perfect place is out there iladyja.
There seem to be so many of us out there. I guess I realized this, but until it happens to you, well, it's like many other things. You understand it more clearly. Please keep in touch and let me know how you are doing. I feel good today.
I hope you have
Happy Valentine's Day to you! We are going to be just fine. The other day I was listening to someone talk about healing of broken marriages. They made an interesting point. They said if we keep looking to other people to fill voids in our lives we are always going to end up feeling disappointed because people are not perfect and are not capable of that kind of expectation. I have decided to put my hope and faith in God and leave my marriage in His hands. I can't change my husband, but I can let God help me change my attitude and me and my life.
I feel ok today. Actually, I feel happy and calm. I haven't felt that way for a long time.
I hope you do something nice for yourself today. God Bless you. Diane.
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