Detatch, Detatch, Detatch

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Detatch, Detatch, Detatch
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Thu, 07-10-2008 - 1:38pm

H is in his new apt. as of Monday this week. He came by to see the kids last night, pick up some things and I ran a few errands. I found myself calling his cell phone from Kohls to see if he wanted me to buy him a coffee pot while I was there (he'd asked if we had a spare). I could kick myself...WHY do I do this kind of stuff for him. He sure as heck wouldn't do it for me. I had one of those 15% off coupons, the coffee pot was 1/2 price and I can't stand the way he won't shop around and get a great price (I'm thirfty).


I must detatch. I must detatch. I must detatch!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 3:33pm
That's something that I would do too, just because I am nice.
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Registered: 06-18-2008
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 4:26pm
Ahhhh yes DETATCH....my X moved out on Friday July 4th (to his parents) and I still find myself doing these nice things for him or attemping...I hate it b/c ur right....he wouldnt do it for me...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 7:27pm

That describes STBX and I.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 07-11-2008 - 10:25am

I am no longer in love w/ DH and he's not that sweet.