devastated

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Registered: 08-15-2008
devastated
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Fri, 08-15-2008 - 8:32pm
Well first I am new here and also saying anything on a message board.
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Registered: 07-02-2008
In reply to: mommyoftnt
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 9:12pm
Hi dear-
I don't know that I can offer advice but I'm in a similar situation. Husband left Sunday and he's filing for divorce this Monday. Our house will have to be sold and it's a sad thing to lose your home. If you're like me, I know you love your home. Also, like you, my husband also seemed to want his freedom- jerk. Anyway, from what I've read- if he's working, he will be liable for child support and quite possibly alimony, although I've also read that it's not always guaranteed. Some might also suggest that you get a lawyer. It was no problem for my husband's parents to give him $3000 for it, but I neither have it or know anyone who does. However, there should be a place that offers free legal aid, just call your local courthouse. I don't want to peg your husband or make assumptions but he seems to be experiencing some sort of life-crisis. Seriously google it, it might give you some insight. I know it is not fair or right that someone can hurt you, fracture your family, and leave you high and dry for their own selfish needs. Just remember to keep your wits about you- don't let him anger you and remember that one day he's going to answer to your children why he did what he did. Finally- you're going to be okay- people keep saying that to me and it (sometimes) helps. I'm here whenever you need to vent. :)
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In reply to: mommyoftnt
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 9:21pm

Hi,


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Registered: 08-15-2008
In reply to: mommyoftnt
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 9:22pm
Thank you so much for your support.