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DH agreed to refinance
| Mon, 04-14-2008 - 4:05pm |
DH & I have been discussing the terms of the divorce on & off.
| Mon, 04-14-2008 - 4:05pm |
DH & I have been discussing the terms of the divorce on & off.
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Are you going to refinance under your name only? I would if you're going to go that route. I would even try to say to stbx (if you give him some extra money to buy furniture)....that that's his buy out. I dont know if this will fly, but I think it's worth a shot. This was your home before you married him.......
I am new to the boards, and just read your posts.
Your question isn't a bother at all.
The house is in both of our names fortunately. I think that he racked up all this debt, including this loan because he knew eventually I would get frustrated and file..Then he could say -see we can't afford 2 seperate residences etc....I did see an attorney and have nto filed as yet but am on the verge. He went on several high end vactions, bought a big screen tv, furniture etc. I think this is all part of ruining us.
My name is on the deed, but he flipped a house a few years ago and I must have signed off on an equity line then.He could not get more cash on this line because my name is on this house fortunately. I did speak to a lawyer and as soon as I get a new credit card approved which will be used solely for legal purposes, she will began initiating the divorce. When you say life is difficult for your son and yourself, in what terms do you mean? Financially, emotionally, I am sure all of the above.I have 3 daughters that adore their dad.He just no longer adores their mom,,, I am also in Illinois, in Chicago.
Life is difficult for so many reasons, where do I begin.
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