you did the right thing taking that step and filing. it is now on him to fight for the marriage or not. my husband and i filed and went to court on the bases of adultry. here in maryland it is pretty hard to gain that divorce without an actually witness that saw the act. very interesting. so needless to say our divorce did not go through with the first court date. the next date we got just so happened to be on the anniversary of the day we started dating 6 years ago. neither of us could end it on that day, nor did we at that point want to end it, so we started working on trying to make it work, or so i thought. on our wedding anniversary he ended eveything so now we have to wait one year of being seperate and apart to get our divorce. that was a week and a half ago and i found out 2 days ago, he is dating another girl and has slept with her already. its hard as can be to know it is over, but you have to do what is best for you. i'm pregnant and its super hard for me but in your heart you know filing those papers was right and now let him decide if he is really ready to end it all. you never know what tomorrow holds.
No one likes to be forced into a corner. It often feels like you're "darned if you do, darned if you don't." No fun!
It's been my observation that your husband's behavior is oh so typical of philandering spouses. They go looking for emotional and sexual affirmation somewhere else for any number of reasons. They get hooked because it's exotic and exciting, but what they don't realize until their thigh-deep into it, is it's risky. (A GF can dump him faster than you can say Mississippi.) So they try to hang on to their spouse
Stephanie
Awaiting Baby #1 (9*7*08)
Stephanie
Taylor Logan Born September 4th 9:09 pm 8 lbs 1 oz 21.75 in
i just asked for a separation, my kids are that age too.
My husband also left me for an affair 2 years ago July 5th.
Hi,
No one likes to be forced into a corner. It often feels like you're "darned if you do, darned if you don't." No fun!
It's been my observation that your husband's behavior is oh so typical of philandering spouses. They go looking for emotional and sexual affirmation somewhere else for any number of reasons. They get hooked because it's exotic and exciting, but what they don't realize until their thigh-deep into it, is it's risky. (A GF can dump him faster than you can say Mississippi.) So they try to hang on to their spouse
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