Did you ask for the divorce?
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Did you ask for the divorce?
| Sun, 11-25-2007 - 7:26pm |
I'm not trying to stir up trouble or a debate. Just want to see the ratio here.
I only ask because I was the one who asked my ex for the divorce. He claimed he was oblivious to my unhappiness and accused me of having an affair. Then a week later he filed while I was out of town at a convention (I was served when I got home).
It seems to be the world consensus that if you want out of your marriage because you don't love the person anymore you must be having an affair.
We were married rather young, 19 & 23, we had a lot of growing up to do and ended up growing apart over the next 13 years. I expected the opposite when I got married but I was wrong.
So how many of us asked for the divorce?
TIA
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Yes- I was the one to ask for the divorce...
We have been together for 17 years since I was 19 years old. I really should have done this years ago BUT like so many other women I thought it best my children have both parents together .
Of course the really odd thing is that my soon to be X and I are now communicating better then we EVER have before!!!!
Guilty!
Another common denominator?
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Karen, I too noticed the number 13 and our situations sound very similar.
I asked.
Okay, this is freaky.
~calla~ mom to rosie and gracie
Well, I had my suspicions for a very long time... and chose to ignore it thinking we'd get things back on track.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Good question!
I filed out of frustration.
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
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