Did you ask for the divorce?
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Did you ask for the divorce?
| Sun, 11-25-2007 - 7:26pm |
I'm not trying to stir up trouble or a debate. Just want to see the ratio here.
I only ask because I was the one who asked my ex for the divorce. He claimed he was oblivious to my unhappiness and accused me of having an affair. Then a week later he filed while I was out of town at a convention (I was served when I got home).
It seems to be the world consensus that if you want out of your marriage because you don't love the person anymore you must be having an affair.
We were married rather young, 19 & 23, we had a lot of growing up to do and ended up growing apart over the next 13 years. I expected the opposite when I got married but I was wrong.
So how many of us asked for the divorce?
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I asked for the divorce (which is not final).
Pita, it's been two years and I still look at my ex with disgust. LOL
Sorry, I just know that most if not all of us know what you mean. While it's so awful that we have to go through this it's good to find a place like this one. I've only been here a couple months and it's such a relief to read the thoughts of others knowing they are mine.
Thanks again for all who replied!
I also asked for the divorce, after I caught him cheating.
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