Did you go to pre-marriage counseling?
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Did you go to pre-marriage counseling?
| Wed, 07-27-2005 - 3:58pm |
Did you go to pre-marriage counseling?
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| Wed, 07-27-2005 - 3:58pm |
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Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Me too!... My then-husband thought it was marital counseling to "save" us.... I told him I was past that and that it would be counseling to help us cope with the divorce individually and as parents.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
nah karen! i was ms. cheerleader to the very end!! i didn't realize that it was, in fact, going to be 'pre-divorce' counseling. nuh uh. i was going to MAKE THIS MARRIAGE WORK!!!
ha ha ha
in the end i was lucky - we had a great counselor who didn't waste time on crapola and kept us (well, me actually, cause ex stopped going, cause 'he doesn't need therapy' and 'all therapists are quacks') right on track. and i am grateful that she helped me see the marriage for what it was (and especially for what it wasn't) and how i could either ACCEPT things as they were or else move on (cause things were just not going to change).
Ya.... I was past the MAKE THIS MARRIAGE WORK stage... you know, when he was refusing to go to counseling... for the very same reasons that your EX proclaimed... or that's what he was hiding under, anyway.
I'm wearing some very, very sweet ear rings today :-)
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
ENJOY!!
I don't know if what we did would be considered counseling or not.
LOL!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
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