Divorce 4 sure , Need advice
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| Tue, 12-19-2006 - 2:23pm |
Hello,
I am in need of some advice. I have received some wonderful advice from the boards here from the time of my d-day(2yrs) and through my rebuilding process. It is certain now that my husband and I will split. He says that he is confused and just wants to be free! After his A, we began to rebuild but he violated our pact by contacting the OW again and pretty much I knew then that our marriage was over. We have basically been just cohabitating for the past 6-7 months. For awhile I thought we were going to work it out again, but lately I have really accepted the fact that he wants out and I am in full agreement with him. He needs to go. Problem is I know he cannot afford to maintain our place of residence & a place of his own. I have no way to support myself at this time becauase I do not work. We only have one car and he uses it for work. He pays all the bills in our home now, I am actively seeking work at this moment but know that it will be some time before I can afford to fully take care of myself. I guess I don't know where to start? If I leave I will have move half way across the country and live with family(which I don't want too because there are problems there. And I don't know anyone where we live that I would feel comfortable living with. Should I even care whether he can afford a place of his own? I Any advice? Id appreciate it.

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Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~