Divorce after years of infidelity

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Divorce after years of infidelity
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:16am
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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 1:21pm

I am very sorry for the situation you now find yourself in--it must be a real shock.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-25-2008
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 8:39pm

Dear musiclover12,


Thanks so much for your reply.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 10:06am
May I suggest getting a very tough divorce atty since he is already playing hardball & being unfair to you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-21-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 10:31am

I would agree with music lover. Get an attorney NOW, if you haven't already. That is the best thing to do for yourself to have someone respresent you and go to bat for YOU. I interviewed 3 lawyers before deciding on the third one. Sounds like you need a vampire lawyer. If you can't find one in your town go to a bigger town that is near. Search till you find one that you feel comfortable with and has the qualities you need in a lawyer.


Phoenix Firebird 08
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Registered: 06-25-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 1:25pm

Dear musiclover12,


He filed in a community 4 hours from our family home where some of our business' are. He hired an attorney

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 2:19pm

Hi there,


My divorce was also very ugly and lengthy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-25-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 2:47pm

Dear Phoenixfirebird08,


Thank you for your response. Sounds like we are in the same boat. I too, have been told that I have been little help to our businesses, while I know that I have been extremely valuable.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 4:00pm

Some day when you are feeling that low self esteem, start writing down on a piece of paper, how you started the business from nothing, what steps you took and your contributions to it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-21-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 6:48pm

mhollyhocks,


Just so you know, you are not nuts. It is perfectly normal to feel that way, as I feel nuts sometimes too, but it sounds like you are still in the shock phase and that's ok...Sometimes I go in and out of being in shock but it's getting less and less as time goes on and once I realized I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me I started to be more ok. My friends would say "Why do you want to be with him when he doesn't want to be married to you?" and when it was put that way, I couldn't answer yes that I wanted to be with him b/c

Phoenix Firebird 08
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Registered: 06-25-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 8:25pm

Dear Camult,


I have spent

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