Divorce after years of infidelity

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Divorce after years of infidelity
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:16am
I am new to this site.
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Registered: 06-25-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 9:38pm

Hi Musiclover,


Another good idea... to try to regain my self esteem and develop a resume for the future. You

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 10:57pm

Hi phoenixfirebird08,


Are we married to the same man??? Wow how I relate to everything you wrote. I am definitely in the shock phase...and along with it the anger, guilt etc.

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Registered: 06-06-2003
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 7:24am

I was the same as you when all this first went down.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 11:42am

With all those accomplishments, you should not be settling for a min. wage job, but I understand that if you don't live near a big city, it might be hard to find something.

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Registered: 06-21-2008
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 1:26pm
music lover, funny you should mention that we (women) work for our own business and don't draw a salary and work for 'free'. How true is that?!! While I only worked for 7 and 3 1/2 years on our businesses it doesn't mean I'm not owed what work I did do and the 'future' earnings of those businesses. At least that is how I look at it. While I may be on the cusp of getting some alimony, I don't think it will end up being a lot or for very long, but the buyout of the businesses is what is more important to me I guess. But hollyhocks, you should be getting alimony for a long time, you were married a long time and you deserve to get paid!!
Phoenix Firebird 08
Phoenix Firebird 08
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Registered: 06-25-2008
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 10:51am

Hi Camult,


Sorry for the delay getting back to you...usually I am more prompt but I was away.

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Registered: 06-28-2008
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 11:05am
I am sorry you are hurting.
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Registered: 06-06-2003
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 6:03pm

You are not giving

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Sat, 06-28-2008 - 9:04pm
mmadelines said:
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Registered: 06-25-2008
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 4:36pm

Dear musiclover12,


Sorry for the delay getting back to you.